In Memory of Kyle Weaver...
Family and Friends,
This blog has been created to give Kyle's family and friends a chance to share stories with each other.
Kyle meant so much to so many people and will truly be missed but not forgotten.
If you have photos that you would like posted to the website, please email ninokyle@kyleweaver.net and I will be sure to get them posted. I am working on setting up the site so you can upload pictures yourself, but for now just send them via email.
We love you Kyle!!!!!
Dave
We will miss you sooooo much Kyle, I cant believe it. I will carry you in my heart forever. Thanks for all the laughs and your kindness.
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I WILL MISS YOU KYLE, HEARING YOUR LAUGH, SEEING YOU IN THE HALL AND SHARING OUR STORIES TOGETHER. MAY PEACE BE WITH YOU ALWAYS.
MY THOUGHT AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
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I met and got to know Kyle during my frequent visits with my cousin, Dave. He shares the same birthday as me, which instantly meant he was cool. Kyle was a great friend; the kind of friend that reaffirms that your cousin is a great guy because of the quality of people in his inner circle. His love for David, Sandra, the kids, the pets...was clear and unquestionable. He was generous with his time. He loved to laugh, and he really seemed to enjoy life. I feel honored to have known him briefly. My best to his family and friends...
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We the Deason Family new the Weaver very well. Two of my brother new Kyle Weaver and many other part of there family. The Deason are very soeey to hear the bad news and our preyer are with the weaver family lost. god be with you all and best wishes.
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Kyle,
I grew up with not just 2 brothers but 3. You were there for all my formal occasions and even did my nails…. YES! Kyle did my nails. They were big and green, lord were they messed up. I walked around with my hands in my pockets and of course Troy was there to make fun of me. You hugged me when my mom was in hospital and told me everything would be ok… You took me to and from school. You never left me and would show up with stuff for me to get into. I will never forget you and you will always be in my heart. You were a great big brother and life will not be the safe. Who am I going to harass at all the family functions? LOL LOL We all love you Kyle…
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To everyone in California-out loss is very deep this time, we would like to thank Dave, Troy, Jay, Tim and Richy for being that brother to my brother...my life with Kyle was a blessing and living in CA closer to him was even a bigger blessing. You ALL in my thoughts daily-Kyle loved you all for one reason and that reason I have seen in the last couple of days. You truly were is "family" in CA. Love you all-look forward to spending time with you in Idaho sharing his goofy stories.
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I have been friends with Kyle since probably 96 or 97. For probably the last 6 or 7 years he has cut my hair every 2 to 3 weeks. I joke with other stylist that nobody touches this hair but Kyle NOBODY. It was always the little things he did that showed me what a great friend he was. He never charged if either my wife or daughter needed a cut. I would tell him please accept something and he always refused saying it was his pleasure.He treated all of his married friends children as if he was their uncle and in many ways he was. Kyle never knew it but he really was a great roll model when it came to character and the meaning of being a true friend in every sense. We will miss you Kyle . Life wont be the same without you.
Love, Carol ,John,and Jade
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I've known Kyle since I was a kid. My older brother Kevin hung out with him and Troy. He was such a nice guy and had such a good heart. Im so sadden and heartbroken over his death. Words cant describe what a great guy he was. I will always think of his smile and laugh. Kyle you will be missed by the Mifsud's so, so much. We love you
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I added my comment to "service update",just noticed... I want Kyle's friends, the parents of "the twins" and the parents of the boy who wears a mohawk and drives a power wheels car... Kyle often spoke of these children as if they were his... and his niece's. these children will be missing out on a lot, but have had the joy if having an "uncle Kyle". May God be with his friends and family left behind. We are so sad, and so sorry! XXOO sherry cox & family...
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I have been a client of Kyle's for 8 or 9ish years??? Too many to count. This tragedy is extremely surreal! Kyle, you were like a son to me and I will truly miss our laughs and conversations. My thoughts and prayers go out to Kyle's family and "best buds" whom he talked about all of the time. I will see you in heaven one day Kyle!
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To the best Hairdresser I have ever known! I still can't find anyone that can do my hair the way you did. I remember walking into the salon and you were like how do you want it? I told you do whatever you wanted to do. Sure enough I came out like a rock star! ; ) You were always smiling and so happy! A joy to be around. I loved hanging out with you! You are one of a kind. We'll meet again one day Kyle.
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I got to know Kyle back in the day working for Bevo's and we got along great. I moved away shortly after but always seemed to run into Kyle when I came into town. Always seemed to have that great big smile like he never had a bad day, couldn't help but cheer you up if you were having one. Kyle will be looking down on all of his friends and after reading these postings and seeing the pictures he will be busy. He was taken well before his time and will be missed my everyone.
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Hi Tara
My name is Melanie. I am Troy Rogers little sister. I am so so sorry for the loss of your brother. I had the opportunity to spend alot of my younger years growing up with Kyle living with us. He wasn't just Troy's friend or a kid who lived with us he was a older brother. He is in a better place now and looking over us. I hope that I have the opportunity to meet you and give you a big hug. You and your family are always welcome and our home is your home. Please keep in touch with us over the years.
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I only knew Kyle from Deja Vu. He cut and styled my hair for 11 years, and he was really great at what he did. Sometimes I would be so frustrated with my hair (naturally curly with a mind of its own) that I would tell Kyle it was a good thing my appointment day had arrived because I had had half a notion to shave my head and buy a wig. He'd just laugh. Kyle could always come up with the right cut and style to make me look good. I relied on his expertise when I wanted to do something a little different, and he always came through. One thing I will always remember is the day, after he finished cutting my hair, when he asked me something none of my previous hairstylist had asked me - Did I wanted to go "straight or curly." I had always been told not to have my hair chemically straightened because it would ruin the curl. And it never entered my mind to style it straight. So when he asked me this I was definitely intrigued. He styled my hair straight and I absolutely loved it. Unfortunately, no matter how I tried, I could not get it to look as good as Kyle did. So every now and then after a cut I would ask him to style it straight for me. Kyle, I am going to miss you so very much, your advice, your "hairstylist" friendship listening to me as you cut my hair. I will remember you always. May God be with your friends and family.
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I was looking for a hairstylist and my BFF had mentioned this awesome and talented guy in Hollister that she and the rest of the girls used by the name of Kyle.. I drove out to Hollister to try him out and not only did I love his work.. but his personality, sense of humor, awesome smile and the stories we shared with each other about family and friends was great.. even though he tried to tell me my "John Travolta" was gay..Kyle talked so often about all his brothers and sisters, mom & dad and oh how he lit up when he talked about his nieces and nephews.. he was especially excited about what an awesome snow boarder his niece was.. he would say how much she "Blew him away" when she showed him up on the slopes.. He talked about how much he loved visiting them, and something about how KFC was a big part of his childhood..LOL I guess his family would understand that one..
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Kyle,
You will be missed by so many. Kyle has been doing my hair for about 4 years. Before him, Chrissann did my hair. When she moved away, and the first time I went to Kyle he said "Chrissann left me the recipe and I know exactly how she colored your hair." I said Great, throw it away, I want color, and color he gave me. The best color, dark underneath and way red on top. I loved his color. I remember before Chrissann left asking her opinion, and she recommended Kyle and I said, I'm not so sure, he seems so quiet. She reassured me that he was not. I so enjoyed him and we laughed together over many little things. I recently found out I have breast cancer. I had an appointment with my doctor that lasted longer than expected and I was about 10 minutes late for my hair appointment. Kyle was the first person I told that I had breast cancer. He was so caring in such an intrusive kind of way. He was such a wonderful person. He was one of those people that is an asset to the world as a whole. I will miss him a lot. He will be missed by many, and our world will not be as good without him.
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Correction: He was so supportive in an UN-INTRUSIVE kind of way.
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I got to know Kyle a few years back when I was working at Bistro 427. Kyle knew the owners ans would always come in and eat. A couple years after I bought my motorcycle and we began to ride together. Kyle was a great person that taught me a lot. He was always in a good mood and no matter what happened in my life I would be in a good mood after spending a few minutes with him. I know I didn't know Kyle as well as most people writing on this blog but I looked up to kyle like an older brother and I will miss him. Although I am very sad at what happened and what I saw I will always remember the good times and the laughter I had with Kyle and that will keep his spirit alive with me.
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When I first moved to Hollister, I was still driving to Modesto to have my hair done until Tammy recommended Kyle to me. I was young and so was he. He was always so fun and open to my ideas. He actually did my whole families hair at one point. Kyle- you were one of a kind- may you rest in peace.
Mike, Carol, Meliisa, and Joel Guarino
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I have only known Kyle for about a year now. He was "the man" when it came to hair. I was so blown away when I heard the terrible news. I missed my last hair appointment because I was called into work and am so sad I wasn't able to have one last conversation with him. He was one of those kind of people that everyone liked. I mean how could you not? If you were in a bad mood, his presence would put you in a good one. If you were in a happy mood already, you would leave his presence in an annoyingly happier mood
Veronika & Maria
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I had the great privilege to spend some time with Kyle during my two years in Salinas. From the get-go he was a wonderful friend who was always up for a great time. I don't remember a time that I've seen him without a smile. I'll always remember dancing and joking with him, making things for him (he nicknamed me Arts & Crafts, a spin off of my initials), and just how I always had fun whenever he was around. I'll always be grateful for the memories I've had with him.
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Hi Melanie-thank you so much all though right now trying to read this my eyes fill with tears and I can't seem to read them all I so apriciate your thoughts...Troy was a very very special freind to Ky...and I'm so sorry I won't be in CA I have come down with a very bad cold and have ear infections but my older sister and her family will be there on Wednesday-she is the best so please give her that hug for me and let her know who you are as I will speak with her before she leaves today. Please, please watch over our Troy as we are all very worried about him as a family. My plans are to come to Hollister this summer and spend some time with you all so I can remain close to you all as I know Ky would have wanted that. Again, please give your family my love and please watch over Troy and I will see you all this summer...I will post pictures on here of the Idaho "get together" with all his "brothers" from Hollister and his buddies from Idaho. Get my number from Troy if there is anything I can do for any of you.
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Jody Livingston Kyle was my partner in crime all through elementary school and through junior high. When I was in 4th grade I was able to stay the night at his house on a school night (a thurday night). I slept on the floor between Kyle and Cory's beds. In the middle of the night Cory had a seizure that about scared me to death. Of course the rest of the family handled the situation like pros. After Kyle got his parents in the room and everything settled down we all went back to bed and right before I fell asleep Kyle leaned over the side of the bed and said "if it happens again its your turn to grab his tongue". I remember hearing Kyle laughing to himself about his comment as I fell back asleep. I didn't find it that funny at the time but I think its hilarious now.
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Weeavveeer,
i remember when he first moved to Hollister and worked at bevo's, Tim brought him over to hang out one night saying "This is Klye, he's from Idaho and new in town and will be hanging out with us...," and he has ever since. We've had many good times, he was always ready to go on a last minute snow trip, or just hang out. He was taken before his time, loved by many and will turely be missed.
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I met Kyle through a mutual friend of ours. We dated off and on for a couple of years. When I found out on friday evening that we lost such a great person, I was truely devastated!Kyle was such a loving, giving, caring person! Anyone who knew him was blessed to have shared in his life. I will always have a special place in my heart for Him. And I am going to truely miss his bright, smiling face. Love you Kyle.
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I had the privilege to meet Kyle many many years ago as my hair stylist. I will surely miss Kyle everytime I go into the salon. It will never be the same. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family in Idaho - you had an amazing son and my prayers and thoughts go out to his family at Dejavu - you had an amazing employee. I will miss all those funny imitations and of just of him being a great person who was always smiling. You will be missed by so many of us! We Love You Kyle!
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Oh my gosh where do I begin... I meet Kylie at Deja Vu . I worked there in the past as a hairstylist and meet kylie when he was going to Wayne's Beuty school. Kylie has done my hair for the past 11 years and has not just done my hair he was a Great Friend to me. It was not just about going to get my hair done I could not wait to see him so he could always tell me I wan't to do this to your hair, I want you to cut it off and make it dark for years I have been blonde and he wanted it to be the way he wanted it to be . He always teased me and made fun of me when I was in his chair we would seriously go rounds!lol Well he finally got to do what he wanted and this past fall he did it he made me redish brown and cut it how he wanted to. I was going to be seeing him on the 3rd of april and he was going to compermise with me and start making me blonde agian. I well Miss him so much as a friend and someone I could vent to. He truley was so genuien and there well never be anyone that touchs my hair and heart the same way he has. Rest in Peace... 4*0 Kylie I love you!!!!!!!
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Kyle was not only a friend, he was family. I met him through my cousins Christine & Jason Salazar. He was one of the most caring, sincere people I've been fortunate enough to come across. He was generous in all his actions -never made anyone feel left out and didn't hesitate when showing people affection. He was always so easy to talk to & very affectionate - had a comforting hug when things bugged you or if he seen you were having a bad day. When he'd smile, you couldn't help but smile because of the way his face would light up - the way his eyes would crinkle at the edges. Kyle, our loss of you is a terrible tragedy & i hope that all can find some peace in this difficult time -- you will be greatly missed - I love you man!
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It's been about 14 years since I have seen Kyle. I remember him like it was yesterday though, he had such a nice, friendly smile. It sure sounds like he had a lot of good, good friends in Hollister, CA. My condolences go out to his friends and family both in Cali and here in Idaho.
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Kyle and Mark Stocking and I use to run together, clear through high school. He and Mark and Kelly Gardiner and I all went to the Junior Prom (see photos) together and watched "So I Married an Ax Murderer" after. No one found it funnier than Kyle. He skateboarded with us, played video games,and snowboarded with us, and generally became part of our neighborhood. First guy to be a cheerleader in AF, and a darn good one. Kyle was just awesome.
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Though I have only known Kyle a couple of years, I realized pretty quickly that he was a great guy with strong ethics. He will be missed by my family.
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I lived with Kyle in Boise when he moved to Boise after high school. We live in a house with 6 others(Tara, Dawn Ackley, Lee Love, Kari & Paul, Bea Killian(MOM)) and had a party one hot summer night that everyone, but mom of course, and after Kyle had passed out for the night and the rest of us too, he woke up in the middle of the night and thought he was going to the bath room in the bath room but he had missed the bath room by a hall way and a corner were he ended up in the closet in the living room! Yes the living room were Kari had her wedding dress hanging up, luckily in a plastic cover, and other coats and shoes and blankets and....well you get the idea! I laughed so hard there was almost another mess to clean up under me! We had many good times before he decided to move to cali were the luck ones of you in cali got to meet this great kid who will be missed by many! Like the old saying goes, "Our lost is Heavens gain!" May Kyle rest in peace.
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Taylor...keep your head up...lookin up to my brother is a great thing...remember him and remember is kindness and his HUGE heart! Ride like you did and remember he will be with you at all times. What you are going through will make you a stronger person and Kyle wouldn't want you to stop...remember to keep in touch with us all.
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Kyle,
You were not just my hairstylist; you were my friend for so many years. When I first met you, you helped me fix my hair for my wedding and ever since then you maintained my hair beautifully! You always knew what to do and you always did it right. I would always look forward to seeing you because we always did something so spontaneous with my hair, even if you disagreed. You will be irreplaceable to me... I will carry you in my thoughts and in my heart always. I will miss you so much Kyle, my prayers to out to all your family and friends. May your sould rest in peace and may God bring your love ones closure for your loss. xoxo
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My brother has been taken and we miss him dearly. Kyle you touched alot of people in many ways and the joy brought cant be replaced. It rain the day after you passed and we felt your tears. I will always love you.
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I have known and loved the Weaver family for many years. I lived down the street from them in American Falls. I was shocked and saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Kyle. My heart goes out to family and friends. Love to you all, Dawn Girvin Porter
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I moved to Hollister just a little over 10 years ago and quickly started looking for a hair stylist. I had never kept the same stylist for long, but after my first appointment with Kyle I knew I had found "the one". I'm sure I don't need to tell everyone what kept me going back every 5 weeks for 10 years. Besides his awesome skills as a stylist, he also became my friend and we joked that he was also my therapist. There were many times I could be having a terrible day but knowing that I had my appointment that night would keep me going because I knew that by the end of the night, I'd be smiling. He had that big beaming smile that was contagious. My heart goes out to everyone whose life he touched. I'm honored to have had the opportunity to have known such a truly wonderful man. I will miss him!
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My heart is heavy with the news of Kyle's death. I will remember him for his zest for life. He lived his life well, I'm glad I was able to be a part of it.
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We were clients of Kyle's for about 8 years, and we are so saddened and heartbroken to hear about the accident. Kyle was a very special young man to us. He was always upbeat, always had a smile on his face, and seemed genuinely happy to see his clients when they came into the salon. Kyle made everyone feel comfortable, and was so easy to talk to. It's hard to think of the right things to say at a time like this, so we'll just say "God Bless you Kyle, we will always miss you and will keep you in our hearts and prayers". We were clients, but more importantly, we feel fortunate that we can say Kyle was our friend.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Weaver Family.
Lynn and Buddy Pattillo
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The last time I saw Kyle we were sitting outside the Bishops office. Both of us had our ears pierced multiple times. He looked at me with a big grin on his face and asked me if my mom flipped out. When I said "Yep" he laughed and said that it was only because our moms loved us that they would get upset with us. He then went on to tell me how much he loved his family and was thankful for their support even when they didn't always agree with his choices. Kyle will be missed by anyone who was blessed to have him be a part of their lives no matter how brief or how long. My thoughts are with his family and friends during this time.
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Kyle and I were pretty good friends our senior year in high school. We went to one of the dances together and he wrestled with my brother and cousins. He had such a great sense of humor and I have often thought of him. I'm glad to see that he was able to be friends with so many people. He had a personality that was contagious and will be missed by many! Our thoughts and prayers go out to all.
Dusti Evans Ozburn and family
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I have been a client of Kyle's for about 8 years. Like many others said, when you are a client of Kyle's, you feel like a friend of his. His warm, friendly personality and his excellent styling skills made so many return month after month, year after year. I was shocked and saddened to hear that we had lost him. My heart goes out to his mother and father and sisters and brothers. He spoke with love of you and his nieces and nephews so often. Please know that ours prayers are with you in this sad time. He will missed by many. To everyone at Deja Vu, you are in my thoughts every day. I will miss your smile and laughter Kyle,my friend. I treasure our time together.
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Kyle has been cutting my hair for many years. He was wonderful, caring and very polite. I don’t think I will be able to find another person who can cut my hair the way he did. I can’t believe he is gone. I am very fortunate to have known him. He will truly be missed by me and the community.
My deepest sympathy,
Marilyn Rizo
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I've been to stylists who just call your name from the list, cut your hair, they listen blankly, give you the mirror to check out your hair, charge you & then your out the door, just in time to call the next person on the list. Not Kyle, Kyle would put them all to shame! I'm so thankful that my friend Dave referred me to his best friend Kyle. Dave always had the greatest and funniest stories about his and Kyle's friendship. Kyle was such a genuine guy; we had great conversations about life, family, friends and the magazine gossip columns. Just watching Kyle talk about his family in Idaho, his best Buds in Hollister and the twins (little Dave and Maria), his eyes would light up and he would smile from ear to ear. Laughs and smiles surrounded him. It was contagious. I'm a working mother of 3 and have little time to myself. Driving from San Jose to Hollister and sitting in that chair with Kyle styling my hair was my "me time". I looked forward to seeing Kyle's smiling face and the laughs we'd have in that chair. Kyle, I will forever appreciate Dave for bringing you into my life. You're passion for what you did not only showed through your creativity in styling hair, but showed through your love and loyalty to your family and friends.
May God comfort those whom you left behind. It was a Blessing to have you in our lives. We'll see you again…but until then, we will be missing you.
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It sounds like alot of people knew and loved Kyle as an adult. I was fortunate to know Kyle while we were young 12/13 yrs old. He was one of the first people I met when I moved to a new neighborhood in AF. I remember the late nights playing kick the can with him and the other kids. He never had a mean thing to say about anyone. Everyone who knows him, I am sure will remember his Smile. Noone had a bigger one! I moved from AF 18yrs ago that is the first thing I think about when I here his name. My thoughts and prayers got out to the whole Weaver family.
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Kyle and I went to school together here in AF and all through school I would love to run into him because I loved to see his smiling face. He would always put me in a good mood. Although I haven't seen him for many years it makes me smile just seeing his smile. We will miss you at the reunions but you know you will be talked about and remembered. RIP my friend. My thoughts and prayers go to your family.
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I have been in shock since receiving the call Saturday afternoon. It's hard to believe that someone who loved life as much as Kyle did was taken from us at this time. I haven't seen Kyle for quite awhile, but I was fortunate to be able to be not only friends with Kyle, but with the family. I felt it a real honor to be part of the Weaver family. Some of my favorite memories of Kyle were when I was a freshman at USU. Kyle was living in Boise at the time and we started writing letters (yes, good old snail mail!) back and forth, keeping in touch with each other. I remember always being so excited when I would open my mailbox and there would be a letter from Kyle. Even through paper and written word you could feel his enthusiasm and spirit. It always made my day to read his letters. I was able to catch up with him one Christmas when he was home from CA and I from college...it didn't matter that it had been a long while since we'd seen each other, we picked up right where we left off. Kyle was always such a great friend, so supportive and truly interested in you as a person and friend. One of my favorite memories though was at Seminary Graduation. Kyle and I were lined up to receive our diplomas, he was behind me. We were each handed a note card to write our name on so they could read it as we got our diploma. I remember Kyle tapping my shoulder and showing me that he had written his name as "Dream Weaver".
Fly me away to the bright side of the moon; And meet me on the other side.
Ooh dream weaver; I believe you can get me through the night.
Ooh dream weaver; I believe we can reach the morning light.
You will be missed, but the love that you shared and the love we have for you goes on forever.
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What do I say? Everyone said what I was going to say.. So I guess that goes to show how genuine he was. That big smile he gave you when you walked in for your apppointment. Also the laughter and jokes, there was NEVER a dull moment when you sat in that chair to get your hair done. The appontment just flew by. My last appointment with Kyle was the week of the accident. We talked about riding and golf, which we talked about most of the time. He told me that he couldn't wait to go ride. He was so excited. So..here we are today saddened with what happened to Kyle. I keep telling myself, he was doing what he loved to do. Still hard, knowing you will never see that big smile of his again. I was very blessed to have had Kyle in my life and also my girls life, he got them threw their teenage years just fine, talked them out of A lot of crazy haircuts. They trusted him to do the right thing for them. Thats allot when you are a teenager and hair means the world LOL. We will MISS YOU !! Our thoughts go out to the family of Kyle. Stay strong and just know he was a very kind hearted man. He was loved by many.
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I first met Kyle shortly after he moved to Hollister. From the get go I could tell he was a genuine person. We hung out for a good few years before I moved to Las vegas and it was always good times. Wether it was snowboarding, body surfing, bon fires or just hanging out it was always fun. After I moved I didn't see Kyle for a few years before I met up with him again but it was as if no tme had past. That was just the kind of person he was. Kyle I'm surly going to miss you but I will always remember you and I'm sure we'll meet up again and it will seem as not a day has past. Until then rest in peace.
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I first met Kyle shortly after he moved to Hollister. We hung out for a good few years before I moved. Wether it was snow boarding, body surfing, bon fires or just hanging at friends houses it was always a good time. I remember after I moved I had'nt seen Kyle for a few years but when I met up with him again it was as though no time had past. Thats just the kind of person he was. He was a great friend. I will miss you and I will always remember you. I'm sure we'll meet up again and I'm sure it will seem as no time has past. Until then rest in peace brother.
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My son, Thomas, and I met Kyle 2 years ago at the Deja Vu Salon. We don't have words to say how much we will miss him. Through the two years we got to know him, we got to know how kind and giving he was. He was a perfect example of, "It's not what you take with you, it's what you leave behind." We will miss him very much.
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My brother was a very kind hearted person. He always accepted everyone for who they were. he always had a smile or made you smile or luagh. I am greatful for everyone that has helped out. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for all the support and all the comments. I am very greatful too be his younger brother. I love and will miss him dearly. I hope and pray for everyone too be albe too get through this and that he would want you too be strong and move forward. Thank you soo much again.
My love to everyone
kory his brother
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Where do you even begin? To the Weavers... I am so, deeply sorry for your loss. An unimaginable hit that only the immediate family could understand. I cannot comprehend your feelings at this moment.
This is a hard one for me. Although I haven't seen Kyle since I graduated in 94, I still have so many memories of him. Memories from when he was young through high school. Someone in the messages mentioned him winning a burping contest... knowing the Weavers ... I would have thrown in the towel before the competition ever began! Kyle was infectious... he had a zest for life and you couldn't help but have fun when you were around him. He had a great smile. He was a friend to everyone and always had a bright outlook... and an understanding that few have. He was a strong person. I remember how confident he was in his ability when he tried out for cheerleading in 7th grade. Kyle was just who he was... and comfortable in his own skin. I always admired him for that. He was kind, gentle, caring and full of personality. I look at his pictures with the nieces and nephews... both family and "adopted" and his love for kids leaps off the screen. In each photo, you can see his love of life, family and friends. His photos are worth far more than a thousand words.
We are all better people for Kyle touching our lives in so many different ways. We thank you for allowing us to share your son and brother with you for the moments of our lives that he touched. I have every confidence that his trip home was a joyous reunion. And that he'll be a part of all of us that knew him, forever.
Much love. We are praying for peace and comfort for you now and always.
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To Kyle,
When I first met you it was like I already knew you. You were so nice. To this day I have known you more than ever. You were a great friend and in heaven I hope you are happy and peaceful.
Love Jade Gorena age 9
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I met Kyle when he first moved to Hollister and started hanging out with my cousin Manuel, Richie, troy and all the other guys. He was a very outgoing person who loved being everyones friend. I moved to Vegas a few years after I met him but during those years he was always telling me to go by his shop and he'd give me haircuts. I just moved back to Hollister a few months ago and its unfortunate that I didn't go by to chat with him one last time. Kyle was taken from us earlier than we all expected but we will all be together someday again. My prayers and condolences to all his family and friends. We miss you Kyle.
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I saw Kyle last week. He stopped by my house on his lunch break to say hi to the twins, and give them a hug. When I told them Nino Kyle was here, they went screaming down the stairs. "Nino Kyle! Nino Kyle!!!" they yelled and met him with hugs, laughter and kisses. He talked with them, asked them what they had been up to. And then he was off. The twins attacked him with hugs and kisses again and again, and they enthusiastically waved and screamed as he rode away. They treated him like a celebrity, and rightfully so, he deserved it.
I'm glad that Kyle and I were never shy with each other. One day, after harping on him, I told him I loved him and that's why I was so protective over him. And to my surprise he didn't get weird or akward. He simply said, "I love you too, Sandra." His eyes smiling back at me.
I think my mother said it best when she said, "This world will be a little darker without Kyle's bright spirit." Yes, it will. But my life was a whole lot better because he was in it.
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My older son Marcky (8 yrs.) will be donating his hair, in february, in memory of Kyle. My younger son Tyler (3 yrs.) keeps asking me who will cut his hair? he only wants Kyle... They will miss the skateboard, wrestling, and many stories he would share! even the little ones loved and will miss kyle, o, so much!
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hi, kyle often talked of "the twins" and wanted us (you and i) to meet... maybe we can get the kids together at the park??
i am so sorry!!
sherry cox
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Of course. I know Kyle would have liked that. Email me (you can send it to the webmaster, who is my husband) with your contact info and we'll make it happen.
Sending you a virtual hug,
Sandra
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I would personally like to take the time to Thank you all for the love, support and respect you ALL showed towards my family through this difficult time in our lives...I spoke to my parents after all was said and done this evening and nothing but kind, respectable words were said about everyone there in Hollister...my heart aches so badly as I know laying him to rest next to my sister will be very hard for me and my family...but when my parents talked so highly of you all my mind was at peace knowing how many lives Kyle touched. To Dave, Sandra, Troy, Julia, Tim, Jay, Richy and all the other "guys" I owe you more than you will ever know for taking the time and making my brother who he was...making my parents feel as though they never missed a minute in his life and made there lives so easy while they were there...Thank you from the bottom of my heart and I will see you all when you get here...please drive safely and know my heart is SOOOOOOO thankful for your kindness, love, compasion and most of all a brother to my brother. Love you all and know when ever you need anything I will get it done...for what you have done for my family I will do what ever it would take to make it happen. Be safe and know you all gained a family...a large one!
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Hi Nino,
I just wanted to say thank you for being my godfather. You always made me laugh and played with me every chance you got. I hope someday to be as nice as you. My sister sleeps with the Puppy toy you gave her for Christmas every night. I still ride the little tractor you got me for Christamas in 2007. I will talk to you when ever I need help. I will put your picture by my bed and will say a prayer for you every night.
Te amo Nino Kyle.
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I just wanted to share a few things about Kyle. What a friend. I met him through Tim and Manny working at Little Caesars (remember those days?). As we all got older and moved away I still came to Hollister to get my hair done. He caught me up on all "the boys". He loved you guys so much. Dave, he was so proud of the twins. Not to my suprise he told me a few weeks ago about their WWF moves. We both got a good laugh over that. As I have been, I will keep him and his family in my prayers.
He will be missed greatly.....but NEVER forgotten.
Take care,
Melanie
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I kept saying that I would post a comment as soon as I had the strength to get through typing one, but I'm afraid that might be a while so.....I don't even know where to begin. I'm Kyle's sister, the mother of the neice he snowboardered with. And that's probably been one of the hardest things to watch. My daughter is so devasted by the loss, which makes my hurt even deeper. Kyle meant so much to my family. I know I'm not expressing anything much different than what hundreds of others have said, but his loss will be felt so deeply for us. In a way that I can't even put into words. Memories of his visits here are all over our house. Everywhere I look, I see him and that smile. At some point, I know that will be a comfort, but for now it is a little painful.
But I know that Kyle would tell us to "cut it out, dude!" and get on with things. So everyday is a new day, some good, some very sad, but always a new day.
Just a quick note to thank his "best buds". What an amazing group of guys!!! There should be no regrets, no apologies to be made, no questions about your friendships. Kyle obviously knew how much each one of you loved him or he wouldn't have done the things for you and your families that he did. Just continue to love him, honor his memory, and maybe be a little better person because of him. Actually, we could all use that advice.
Kyle, I love you always!!!!
Wendy
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YOU WILL MAKE IT
written by JEM and feat. Vusi Mahlasela
Go to bed everything’s alright
Don’t know the whole world’s changing
As you sleep through the night
Wake up slowly and it’s a different world
Hear the news and the floods begin
Screams so loud but only felt within
Heart is shattered
The pieces can’t be found
I feel your pain, I wrote this song for you, for you
You will make it, you will make it through
I promise you, he would want you to
Months go by, still living in a daze
Don’t know what you’ve done
With the last seven days
Soul is numb and life is like a dream
Helping hands but you push them away
How could they understand
Don’t wanna share your pain
Afraid to heal, ‘cause that would mean goodbye
I feel your pain, I wrote this song for you, for you
You will make it, you will make it through
I promise you, she would want you to
Olele Olele Ubaba
One day sunlight hits a photograph
And it makes you smile
The memories dance around you now
And they make you smile
You’re not alone
You’ll never be
Just like the stars
They oversee
And they whisper to you
You’re still, you’re still, you’re still, you’re still alive
I feel your pain, I wrote this song for you, for you
You will make it, you will make it through
I promise you, they would want you to
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there; I did not die.
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My husband and I were right behind Kyle and his friend on that friday. We actually passed them while they were stopped on the road to the pinicles. They then passed us and looked like they were having so much fun. We (my husband and I) were one of the first people on the scene after the crash. We wanted to send our condolences to all his friends and family. We are so sorry for your loss.
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I think about Kyle (and Carlene) quite often. Something that was said at Kyle's funeral in American Falls, still rings true in my heart. Kyle didn't serve a traditional Mormon mission, but he did have the kindness of serving complete strangers--Regardless of their circumstances. I still believe that "Every member a missionary." The question is, to what are you a missionary of? Kyle is still Kyle. He is loving those he gets to be with and pushing us to dig a little deeper to offer up some good things in a tough world. I'm very proud of his friends and family. Thinking about Kyle's smile, still makes us all smile. What a gift!
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I am stunned... I never knew of kyle's passing until today... What a loss. My heart sank as I read on deja vu's website of a memorial golf tournament in his honor.
I grew up in hollister and just before I left town Kyle gave me a haircut that helped change me. I went from a always looking like a dweeb to looking like a rockstar.... Well in my mind anyway... I left town shortly after but I would always try and schedule a haircut with him when I came up from san diego to visit my parents in hollister- This guy was that good at what he did!! In fact i was gonna try and scedule a hair appointment with him next time i came up
Even though I didn't know him outside of déjà Vu I did know he loved his family as he would talk about them often. He will truly be missed- may his legacy of loving others live on.
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